None of this makes a difference to women Sigh. If you like a girl, let her know. The young generation of guys have been taught that being a proud woman is valued in the society, being a proud man not so much. It seems to me that you want a relationship just for the sake of having one. I feel like I need a fucking psychologist or something, I don't know what is wrong with my mind. Most will put out the first night if not before then.
If there is one thing worse than a weak man, it is a weak man full of fear. No matter how much praise I ever get, I can never form a lasting healthy opinion of myself. Well first off, care who you end up with. It's like my mind just defaults back into depressed mode. I've never been even remotely attracted to or interested in other men. And don't say be happy and positive and someone will like you or better yet, be confident.
I am always on the computer or reading a book. Keeps me out of trouble and i do not waste energy or effort doing things for other people. Also, it is obvious when you are not seen with a girl that people are going to think you are gay. I'm happy with my life but I continue to try and improve myself. Quite frequently not even himself. Confidence is what's killing your game nothing else.
Inspired by that 33 year old but that guy seems kinda trollish Just wondering if anyone has been in my shoes and still was able to get a gf later on and lose his virginity What would a girl think if I told her? I'm getting emotional just reading your post. My feeling is that if I couldn't make friends in elementary school the easiest time to make friends in my opinion what hope is there for later in life. No, I have only had crushes on boys. It sounds to me like you need to work on your view of yourself. Before you decide this is too long to read, you can skip most of this post. I never had any lasting friendships and the lack of friends has followed me into my adult life. I'm 23 years old and in the same predicament as yourself, but the difference being I rarely get the opportunity to meet girls and have never actually been on a date.
You have to become interesting in your own right. I speak 4 languages, still doesn't impress them. Unfortunately everyone else thinks I'm straight. I've gone for months now without feeling the least bit down. I've just had a string of rejections and bad luck and its getting to me emotionally, I've been down and depressed all week and I wonder what even motivates me in life.
Regardless of gender, people need reassurance, love, and to feel special. You will find someone eventually I generally mean that. There's this fear that you're going to put all this effort and emotion into a relationship and then it's going to blow up. Often you encounter females via male contacts. I've never had a real relationship before and I feel my self esteem gradually slipping away from me. I've had my heart broken too many times to put myself through that pain again.
I've spent years trying to get a girlfriend, even got a dating coach. So each day I wake up this is on my mind and I don't know what to do. I've tried 2 times to kiss a girl. Either I lower my standards, or just stop trying altogether, because for all the effort I'm putting into this, I'm not getting what I want out of it. Well trust me when I am confident it doesn't matter.
I'm 25 and never had sex, never known what it feels like to kiss someone. To be in a relationship you must be relationship material, but to be relationship material you probably need to have been in a relationship or currently be in one. And if you already have some of these things maybe you just have to better display the fact that you are passionate about them, show how driven you are. Part of me believes that but my mind nearly always tells me that all that is untrue and that I am a loser and a terrible person who can never be loved sometimes I also believe that I am unlikeable, even though I have plenty of friends. The young generation of guys have been thought that being a proud woman is valued in the society, being a proud man not so much. Your looks project parts of your personality. You will find someone, its just a rather long waiting game at first.
Sure you can find a fat ugly one in your area. Also right until this January I was a virgin as well,and think the girl only was interested in me because she found it out of the ordinary and therefore attractive. Like why the hell can't I socialize a lot and put myself out there and meet a descent man and not push him away when he expresses interest. I also didnt really have any proper friends till I was about 17 and have no brothers and sisters, so I spent most of my childhood outside school and often in school lonely because I had no other kids to interact with. Self pity has never won any dates. Although I am not social, being social and feeling connected to others is something that I really center myself around. I'm so terribly sorry for how you're feeling.
I log onto facebook and see the people I went to high school with. Remember, the greatest chef in the world can still be a terrible person. All I really want is to be with an attractive and intelligent, and to have a healthy relationship, and I'm not getting it. And for most men my age, this is, indeed, unique. Just brush off any questions about it or make vague suggestions about girls you know that leave your level of intimacy with them up to interpretation. Sometimes I think I will never meet a person who I like and who also likes me. Having said that, I know how bad you must feel because I feel the pain of loneliness, lack of companionship, sexual frustration etc on a daily basis and it never goes away.