Read on for the scenarios that sold them on trying anal. Maybe, get her in the modd, then ask, and she may say yes. You need to make it about her. Just go ahead and accept that reality right now, and try to schedule your aspirations accordingly. Grab some lube that body lotion will work if need be and run a finger in there.
I just went out back and started teaching myself. Just ask my husband whether or not I like being tickled anywhere. The only time I think it is acceptable to approach my asshole without telling me is if one is approaching tongue first, and we've already done that before. Getting a tattoo is painful that's why I don't have one. Anyway, this has nothing to do with anal sex. Of course that does not mean I am not trying it again.
Unlike the vagina, anal hole doesn't have the tissues to accommodate your penis. If you are able to conquer your woman and make her feel like the naughty little victim she wants to be, then prepping her for anal sex will be easy. Preferably keep her face down, but offer a gentlemanly posture modifying comfort read: stick a fucking pillow or one of those sex wedge things under her so that her ass and pussy are sticking up the air. Also, start to prepare her during your usual sex. I'm not into anal and most of my friends are not but I talked to one girl who loved anal and her boyfriend had never done if before. And she needs to enjoy it as much as you do. In the next 5 seconds, you will know with absolute certainty whether she is willing to anally accommodate your dick.
I figured, if this guy knows how to perform open heart surgery, he also probably knows how to correctly execute anal sex without complications. If she doesn't like she can spit out. This accustoms the mate to the realization that her anus may be receiving more attention than usual. Of course, this is all called into question if your one-night-stand initiates anal sex herself. Anal sex is a pleasurable experience that requires trust and intimacy with your partner. We look forward to hearing from you! Anal sex can be quite painful for the girl if she is new at it.
Thus you need to be aware of her eating habits and the schedule of her bowel movements. With patience and time, your partner will discover the pleasure associated with anal penetration. You might even want to just use smaller toys and your fingers until she gets used to the idea of having something inside that particular opening. I'm not frustrated, and my husband isn't jealous. Five rounds of tequila shots later, I cashed in my butt sex v-card. After about a dozen or so passes you should be grabbing her ass cheeks in hand and massaging the shit out of them.
You are open to it because it turns you on, and you would love to hear her thoughts. Give her the reach around or whatever the fuck she likes. Now its time to test the waters. Her pleasure is the paramount priority. At that point, she'll probably start asking you about pegging. But all those hairlines fractures make it even more fragile than it was in the first place, so that if anyone ever even looked in its direction it would burst into flames and send shrapnel into your kneecaps.
The main point is, if you're asking, you should be able to answer the questions she has without fumbling about or making things up. Get her home and get her all worked up, then insist on showering together. You might see that in porn, but the fact of the matter is this girlfriend of yours is not a porn star. She is a great performer and everything that a guy like me is looking for. I didn't feel like you were implying anything.
Do not forget that your life is not a porn movie where everything is easy and possible. Then choose the best position. Spend about a week being all James Bond about when she goes to the bathroom. Anal sex and swallowing cum is not a tradition in most civilizations but is not uncommon either. Keep some wet wipes on hand in your nightstand or under the bed. Not plastered mind you, but buzzed enough to acquiesce.