Your confusion, loneliness and fear are very normal. The grief is so different from when losing a mother, father, etc. Having a partner to go through the ups and downs with is a wonderful thing, and not having that anymore can be devastating. In the meantime, 4 months following a death is still a very short time to expect yourself to feel like your usual self. We were to celebrate our 35 anniversary this year. It feels like a fight to stay normal,everyday. Nothing makes any sense anymore.
My mother says it will not always be like this, but I can't see how. I keep thinking that this is all just a bad dream that will go away and she will be back, i simply refuse to accept that she is gone I just want her back how do I go on without her. I have suffered from depression all my life and he contantly reminded me that he loved me and that I was the most important person in his life. Everyday is so hard he was told the first week of november he had pancreas cancer and with out sergury he had 3weeks he did the sergury but couldn't get it so we were going for cemo when he recovery from sergury but his kidneys failed and the liver to. I've also lost both parents as well. There are lots of people out there who understand the heartache, the loneliness and the fact that their late husband or wife will always be with them and they honor that. Consider talking with a bereavement counselor to help you through this painful but necessary period of mourning.
Widower Chat City is part of the Online Connections chat network, which includes many other general and widow chat sites. My kids have their own lives and children and can't take care of me in the way he did. I am angry that he left me alone to deal with this. For 3 months he had trouble breathing. For a little over one year I'm still trying to adjust to living alone which is a first for me. His daughters confirmation was 2 weeks after his death in the same church it is just devastating, life will never be the same and I am a different person forever which makes me very sad. You're still in shock and need to take as much time as you need to go through the mourning process.
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I'm so lossed he was my everything. Now, should you find someone who just takes your breath away, then by all means, open yourself up to the possibility of dating again. The good, bad and I have been dating the most lovely and wonderful man for the past 3 months. I just don't have any will or desire for life anymore. The other was with my ex-wife who was married and had a bay with that person, but he died when Ben was only 5 months old, and we had worked together, and met up a 5-6 months after his death when I was in the area to where she had moved, as people in her old town would cross the street rather than speak to her, not knowing what to say or do. They are doing brilliantly as kids are so resilient and so brave so much that I wish every day I was like them but I'm not and I have also learnt to deal with this.
Or do you have any friends or family who can be there for you? I feel I got off the train and everyone carried on. Even if we've had time to expect a loss, the reality of death can take us by surprise. They are too young and they really need me right now. There are days I just want to stay in bed! We were married for 22 years and have one child a son who is 12. . The pain you're feeling right now will soften with some time.
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It tends to lead to further arguments in the chatroom. I lost my husband in May of this year and it's still fresh for me. Children and teens express grief differently than adults do. If it feels important to keep some of the usual activities for your childrens' sakes, it's ok to modify what you do this year. Indendent and living in other states. I am still grieving and lonely.
Just like you, i don't know how to start our lives again without him. It will get better soon hopefully it will. In addition to unexpectedly losing your husband and also losing your daughter, you witnessed an extremely traumatic event. Try to arrange periodic get-togethers. Whatever I say or write with the best of intentions can be misconstrued.