It could happen and having a who cares if it happens I might as well try attitude will only reward him. But I just went on with the conversation and she asked again for the second time. So it would seem the thing to determine first is if there is any interest. It's too aggressive and showboating have nothing against females initiating btw. If I am attracted to her I'd probably really appreciate her being forward and would probably message her the next day. All in all I see nothing wrong with this. He'd texted me, saying he'd call to set up a date the next day.
A guy seeking you out for conversation, finding reasons to come stand close to you or sit by you, are signs that he is probably interested. Still, I think this is a very, very, very remote possibility no one should ever, ever, ever consider. She might be busy doing something else. Second time we were just squatting next to each other. The trick is to look very approachable while creating desire in the woman. I would still be flattered though. But I've never felt a lack of options in terms of people to date or a need to be dating anyone if they demonstrated a severe incompatibility or flakiness so early on.
Matt Cook knows this all too well. Once I learned to stop caring about what I looked like and just call girls and ask them out ect. You want to put the girl on the spot when you ask her out. If you want more it's time to get a little more aggressive with this. And she'll still sleep with you? Even if the two of you are simply friends. I have met this girl a few times already and we have gotten along well.
Why should he chalk it up to rejection. Time to sit back and let the women decide who has their number, why, and what they want out of it all! Hey , I just saw your reply to me in your previous thread sorry, I was sick all weekend, so couldn't get back to you then , and thought I'd check to see if you've asked this elsewhere. I am not planning to text her until the day after her powerlifting meet. One of the lines was cut off at our request by the phone company. There's this girl at my workplace whose full of herself, still young. I would still be very flattered though.
If he just wants to hook up with her, and he can truly approach it like he doesn't care, then, sure, it could happen. And I always get the same waitress. She may be waiting for you to make a move. But I think the trick to really not caring is giving it a good hard try and then not caring about the results. I feel that I'm being used as bait so that the other men will back off or maybe she's trying to get back at the other I mentioned. I also don't find her attractive while the men in my workplace are drooling over her. I have only ever given my number to someone because they asked for it first don't want to seem too eager, etc.
You can just text her if you want. Sobriety usually brings about the reality of the situation. In the end who cares if she likes you or not. Give her up to 24 hours to respond to you. Have you been repeatedly asking for her number? Do you realize how easy it would have been for her to get your number and never even txt you.
I know women are cautious about giving out a number anyway, regardless. Really, it all goes back to the ugly ego, but this is one of its milder manifestations. And I still maintain that when it comes to dating it is best to keep all options open. Sometimes girls will ask for a guy's number with some other agenda in mind- say wants to meet new people or expand her social life. This is the first time a girl has given me her number in less than 2 minutes of conversation lol. I will give a man my number and have done so a number of times. If she gets back in contact with him fair enough, he can start pursuing again if he wants too , but to keep ringing and persisting is an act of a needy man, a desperate man and ultimately an unattractive man.
What ever you do, give her opportunities to be alone with you and get her to chase you. That way both of you have each others number. It would have been reasonable for you to get her number at that time. I am not looking to start dating again but do want to talk and hookup with other girls now. Although, I'd go with your best judgment on how to give it to him and when it's the right time to give it to him. Do you have any instinct, or thought with regard to that? Why not call her and voice to voice, have an old fashioned conversation.